Work at Home Moms Count Down Your Time Online

kitchen-timer When you’re working from home and you have kids at home, you’re constantly conflicted. On one hand, you feel like you’re never able to get onto the computer to work. On the other hand, you feel like you’re on the computer all the time.

There are many days when I feel completely unbalanced and stressed. Either I’m on the computer way too much, not paying enough attention to my kids, or when I am with them enjoying our time, I’m feeling bad that I’m not attending to my business.

As women, I think we ALL face these feelings at some time or another. So how do you get it done without stressing out?

Here’s one simple tool I use, and truth is that each time use it, I’m amazed by its brilliance and wonder why I don’t use it more often.
In a world of high tech gadgets this tool is the wonderfully simple (and inexpensive) kitchen timer.

Right now, while my husband is making dinner, I’ve given myself 15 minutes to write as much as I can during that time. When the timer goes off, I’ll hopefully be done with this blog and will join my family for dinner.

The timer has some pretty great benefits:

  • It provides a sense of urgency. Often I have multiple applications open on my computer and if I’m not careful I can flit from project to project, application to application. Sometimes I have that kind of day where I work on a little bit of a lot, but never really feel like I’ve accomplished much. Then there are those amazing “kitchen timer days” when I’m in the groove. I use the timer to keep me focused and moving a long.  When I know the timer is counting down, and I really want to complete my task, I work quickly without distraction.
  • It keeps me accountable. I can’t wander off from writing this blog. If I did and the timer went off, I’d know I didn’t keep my end of the bargain. I have to stay on track because I’ve allotted this time for this blog and I don’t want it to take the whole day.  I find the longer I give myself to complete a project, the longer it takes.
  • It’s tangible. How many times have I said to my kids “just give me 5 more minutes” or “let me check just one email” and then I emerge from my office an hour later? My kids know with the timer that they can watch the time ticking down, and that I’m all theirs when it gets to zero.
  • It teaches them time management. My kids are learning time management, too. You can set the timer for them to clean their room or focus on a homework assignment or enjoy play time before beginning their homework.

If you don’t have a timer – or misplaced yours, here’s an online version that I use.

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  • AWESOME! I love this post. You're such a practical and inspiring leader! Thanks Kim! I'm totally going to start using a timer for everything! I'm so guilty of the "let me check one more email" and then an hour goes by! Yikes! I need to get my special report finished. I am on #4 of 15. If I set the timer for 15 minutes a day, I'll get it done in no time! And I'll feel good about sticking to a routine, without compromising my other work to get it done. Woo Hoo!
  • metromom
    I'm so glad you enjoyed this Theresa. What I've found is that when I spend 15 minutes focusing without distraction, I can get so much accomplished. I've then been using www.TeuxDeux.com to note any random ideas that come up so I don't go down a distraction tangent.
  • Great post Kim! I keep telling myself that I need to get a timer and then forget to get one. Need a post-it note taped to my forehead. LOL! Can't wait to report back with the great news that I'm getting more business work done and spending more quality time with the kids. :)
  • metromom
    Hi Julie, Definitely try the online timer and just save it in your toolbar. Try it once or twice today for just 15 minutes. I trust you'll be more focused during that tip. I'd love to hear. (I'm going to do it as well right now and use the timer to complete a new blog post).
  • Anna
    Thanks Kim, great online resource. I just posted to my followers on Twitter @conceptostudio.

    Anna
  • metromom
    isn't is great when you can spread a resource that's free!
  • Kim, I 'met' you for the very first time this morning on the Women's Online Success Launchpad session. I so enjoyed listening to you, made notes and took the immediate action to download your free report.

    When you talked about perfectionists, I've been realizing that I've been a Master Fiddler most of my life. Fiddling at getting things 'just right'. And I used to wonder, when I worked in my 25-year career in government, how one woman on our team could get sooooo much done. I was working hard too...... so I thought....

    until I recently clicked onto the fact that I was a fiddler, trying to get it just right instead of done. So instead of taking 1 hour, the project took three!

    So I'm learning..... and I think some of the keys you shared today, as well as what I'm seeing on your site and blog will also add value and some much-needed impetus to just do it and get it done.

    I am so glad our paths crossed.............. here's wishing you glimpses of heaven on earth in unexpected places. Brenda
  • metromom
    Hi Brenda, so nice to be connected to you. I'm glad you enjoyed the Catriona's event. She did a pretty great job at pulling together a broad assortment of speakers. The quest for perfection is often a good excuse to procrastinate. That's what I've discovered for myself. I hope you enjoy the content as you browse around and find more helpful info. If you've got any questions, let me know. Take care, Kim
  • Kim what a great tool! I have been thinking about implementing a timer for some of my stuff for awhile now and now I have no reason too! I just dragged that link onto my desktop!
  • metromom
    I'm glad you like this tool Amy. I'm using it today while I get some project's done. I find when I set the timer for 15 minutes, I can really focus for short spurts without distraction.
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